Take care of yourself
Taking care of yourself in general is one of the biggest subjects that needs to be talked about. There are a lot of ways to take care of yourself physically. For example, to physically take care of yourself, go on runs, walks, or go to the gym to take some anger and stress out. Not only does the gym physically help you, it mentally helps you as well. The gym helps clear your mind and look on the better side of life. The gym is also a really huge confidence booster. Not only that, it can also change your mindset for the better. There are other ways to physically take care of yourself. You can also go on diets or start eating more healthy or you can do yoga or simple cardio. You can also do stretches that help your body relax and loosen your muscles.

Mentally take care of yourself
Taking care of yourself mentally is THE MOST important. Your mind needs to have the right headspace to think. One way to mentally take care of yourself is to find things YOU love too, not your friends, or anyone else only YOU. get to know yourself better and find other interests and try new things like changing your routine or sleep schedule to wake up earlier and so you can get your challenges and goals done a lot quicker. Also try to train your mind to where you can control yourself and your emotions. Think before you do and empty your mind. If you just let a lot of thoughts cloud your mind then you won’t know what to do or solve first. A VERY important skill that I recommend is to learn how to stay calm and collective and bring yourself to peace.

Activities you can do to make yourself relax
One activity that I fully recommend is weight lifting. Weight lifting when you’re angry is one of the best things to do for yourself because it causes you to release stress and anger. Another activity I recommend is to go on a nightly walk to clear your head space and focus on more important things. Think about the things you can change instead of focusing on the things you can’t. Also take some time to read and be productive, and try to focus on yourself and better yourself. Try not to get yourself distracted by things that are only gonna get in the way of your goals.I would also say to take a nap when you are stressed out so you are a little more focused and more relaxed and awake. Take cold showers because cold showers are a lot more helpful than you think. Cold showers keep you focused throughout the day and they also help those who have trouble sleeping, and a bonus ismyour immune system strengthens up so much more and fights off more illnesses.

Surround yourself with loved ones
I would recommend to surround yourself with loved ones and hang out with more people who will actually take time to talk to you about things. Sometimes having deep conversations with someone very close to you is all you need to grow happier and relaxed because it helps you learn people actually do care about you. Go out to the mall or movies with friends or have a sleepover with them and do something fun and enjoyable. Start to spend more time with your parents, grow your relationship and have a sibling and parent bond time. Make plans with your significant other so you can both talk things out or go on dates together and make more memories you both can savor.

Start new healthy habits
Also start trying new things but also healthy things and turn them into habits, but only habits that can help you learn and that actually take care of you. Start making habits like going on a walk to clear your mind and to think about things, Taking a small nap so you can wake up stress free, do workouts so you can use your anger towards something, get you goals and work done when you have nothing else to do, and talk to someone very close to you about yours and their problems so you both can seek each other for help. And I would fully recommend to start planning things ahead like for example, getting your assignments done early so it’s already done, plan which one of your goals you want to get done first, I would say just plan things out so you don’t get stressed out in the moment and also relax, take breaks from everything that mentally drains you.

Focus on yourself
Taking time to focus on yourself is not a bad thing at all, nor is it selfish. You always want to take time to relax and rest so you can relax your mind so you can sharpen it for the better. You also want to focus on the things that make you happy and they don’t have to make sense to anyone as long as it makes you happy. Just do the things you want to do and don’t worry about what other people think. They are always going to have something to say, even when you are doing well. All that matters is that you are healthy and happy as a human being. I would also say to get rid of all the negative people in your life so you can actually have time to yourself without any negative people distracting you from your goals.